The Paradox of Privacy - Part III, The Exciting Conclusion

I hadn't intended this piece to run beyond one part, let alone two, but there are just too many interesting things to discuss about who the biggest threat to your privacy is…


I want to discuss the recent event of the two publicity seekers who crashed the White House state dinner last month. Their obvious desperate need for attention and B-List fame reflects what Andy Warhol said about everyone: we all want 15 minutes in the spotlight. Some get it. But at what cost? What the party-crashing couple is now finding out about the dark side is fame (even fleeting, undeserved fame like theirs) is what the first casualty always is: privacy.

Because these two miscreants put themselves in the spotlight willingly, it is obvious that the last thing they wanted from the experience is anonymity. What they are now and will experience a hundredfold more is the degree to which the blogosphere will go to turn over every stone and look for every skeleton in every closet to attempt to (rightfully) embarrass these two. What they will find is that they have awakened a sleeping giant of spite and vindictiveness that will rain down all hell upon them. You can see it already occurring by the revelations that the couple is involved in a plethora of lawsuits, bankruptcies and intra-family fighting.

Why? I believe primarily that Americans are easy lot to entertain and amuse - American Idol, People Magazine, NASCAR don't require much brain matter to process - but the one thing we demand is that our 'celebrities' bring something to the table. Michael Jackson, Tiger Woods and Oprah are famous for a reason - talent. Talent is their currency and we exchange it for fame and adoration. We realize at some level that we cannot easily be like them because they are 'better' then us in some unique way. The couple that crashed the White House is not better than us in any way; we resent their pretentiousness and base arrogance that is offset with nothing in return - it is a classic bait and switch. That they could crash the White House party - okay, good trick - but what do we get in return? A vacuum. Luciano Pavarotti could be arrogant; Bill Gates can be arrogant; Dr. J can be arrogant, he was after all one of the greatest basketball players that ever lived. These two, however, deserve what they get.

Most of only give up our privacy piecemeal – a bit here for some small convenience, a bit there for a 25% off coupon, etc. This couple relinquished their personal privacy wholesale with this selfish and thoughtless antic. Who will they have to blame for the sudden and very public loss of privacy? Who else? Themselves. I hope it was worth it.